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Hen dos and stag dos, organised without the group chat chaos.

Live and Love is an app for planning hen dos and stag dos. It manages the guest list, RSVPs, group SMS reminders, shared budget tracking and a task checklist. Full access costs £49 per event, with a 14-day free trial and no card required.

Planning a hen do Planning a stag do

£49 per event. Free for 14 days, no card needed.

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Hen dos

For the maid of honour: give the bride-to-be a send-off she'll never forget, without becoming the group's full-time admin.

  • Know exactly who's coming, with RSVP emails instead of a group chat
  • Keep every cost and payment against one hen do budget
  • Collect dietary needs before you book the meal
  • Share the plan for activities, decorations and travel as a checklist
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How it works

  1. Add the group

    Put everyone on one list, with their contact details, so nobody is left off the plan.

  2. Collect the replies

    Everyone confirms by email, so you know who is really coming and what they can't eat.

  3. Keep it on track

    Costs go against one budget and jobs get an owner and a reminder, so the weekend just happens.

Everything the organiser needs

So you can enjoy the weekend too. Each of these opens its own page if you want the detail.

One price for the whole do

No subscription. Try everything free for 14 days, then pay once for the whole do when you are ready.

£49 per event

  • 200 guests and 50 text messages included
  • Extra guests 5p each, up to 1,000
  • Extra text messages from 2p eachThe price varies by the country of the venue
  • 14 days free, no card neededText messages and email start once you have paid
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Hen do and stag do questions

Can I split hen do or stag do costs between guests?

Yes. Track total spend against a shared budget and see costs broken down as they're added.

How do I message the whole group at once?

Scheduled SMS messages can be sent to all guests or assigned individually for specific timings, like activity start times.

Is there a free trial for planning a hen or stag do?

Yes, 14 days free, no card required. SMS messaging and email are not available during the trial; all other features are available.

Planning something else?

Weddings Guests, seating and budget
Kids' parties RSVPs from parents and allergies
Company events Attendees, tasks and costs

Get the group sorted

Free for 14 days, no card needed. £49 per event when you are ready.

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